tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-43777010410875234082024-02-21T22:10:54.382+05:30Jaagriti : Awakening ConsciousnessChild Sexual Abuse (CSA) is one of the most widespread and also the least recognized form of Child Abuse that plagues our society. More than half of our children silently suffer, unable to seek help. JAAGRITI is an effort to give all the helpless victims of CSA a powerful voice. It's a movement to shatter the conspiracy of silence that shrouds this menace. This blog is just the beginning...Amrita Purkayasthahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17332261784473353956noreply@blogger.comBlogger95125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4377701041087523408.post-65927265425254194532013-04-21T21:29:00.001+05:302013-04-21T21:29:13.484+05:30Make a difference with ONE signature, ONE minute of your time<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
These are dark times. Sometimes I feel it's a living nightmare. Why are we allowing our children to be treated like this? Why our people in the police force getting less and less sensitive to brutality? The petition below asks the government for ACTION. I am asking YOU to act. Each of us needs to act. Read the petition. If you agree, sign it, if you don't, do not sign it. But if you agree and think it's futile, sign it still. I believe positive energy never goes to waste. I believe each drop in the ocean is equally important for the ocean to be. Let's do our share people!<br />
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<a href="http://www.avaaz.org/en/petition/A_safer_India_for_women_and_children/?pv=14">http://www.avaaz.org/en/petition/A_safer_India_for_women_and_children/?pv=14</a></div>
Amrita Purkayasthahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17332261784473353956noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4377701041087523408.post-9933465416259557162013-03-14T06:16:00.001+05:302013-03-14T06:17:58.319+05:30Thoughts on Sex Education - I<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<b><span style="color: #660000; font-size: small;">What is the right age for a child to get its first sex education? Are we, the parents (or soon would-be), aware enough of this?</span></b><span style="font-size: small;"><br /><br />From
what I see around in young Indians, NO. People are hesitant and
confused. Our generation has taken a leap forward in fighting the
silence on sex, and yet we find ourselves at a helpless loss of words
when the 5-year-old asks one fine afternoon, "Mama, where does a baby
come from?" <br /><br />I have thought and spoken a lot about this over the
past two years, and being in Germany helped open a new horizon
altogether. My view is: start at 3, not with "the big talk", but small
age-appropriate little bundles of information. Parents are absolutely
pivotal in shaping the child's view on sex and sexuality. From an early
age, the child will adapt to the comfort level of the family on these
topics. If a natural, unaffected vibe floats in the family about sex,
that's the message the child will get : sex isn't a big deal. I say, we
have to learn how to make that happen, as very few of us were born into
families already inculcated with such an outlook.<br /><br />Back to the
3-year old: talk to the child about its body, give the child the words
for its body parts. Use simple diagrams of a male and a female nude body
for this purpose. The child will follow with simple natural questions.
Basically the idea is to convey that, "Your body is a very natural
thing! You can talk about it openly with us." I am very happy about the
"Personal Safety Education" of the NGOs Arpan and Tulir which
incorporates such basic sex education. I will post in details about that
later. However, we need to keep in mind that, apart from keeping the
child safe, the aim of a healthy sex ed is to give a child a healthy and
natural outlook on this topic. We want the child to understand, love
and enjoy its body. The private areas are just supposed to be kept
covered, but they are nothing to be ashamed of! Here the topic of how a
child looks at nudity comes in. Let me take up that later again.<br /><br />Until then, I would like to hear your views...</span></div>
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Amrita Purkayasthahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17332261784473353956noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4377701041087523408.post-72694891527006957552012-03-21T01:25:00.001+05:302012-03-21T01:29:42.843+05:30Vatican reports on Irish child abuse scandals<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on"><div style="text-align: justify;"><b style="color: #660000;"><span class="story-date"><span class="date">20 March 2012</span></span></b><b><span style="color: #660000;"> </span></b></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><b>The Vatican has expressed its "dismay and betrayal" at the "sinful and criminal acts" by Catholic clergy guilty of child abuse across Ireland.</b></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;">In a <a href="http://www.catholicbishops.ie/wp-content/uploads/2012/03/Summary-of-the-Findings-of-the-Apostolic-Visitation-in-Ireland.pdf" title="Summary of the Findings of the Apostolic Visitation in Ireland">report published on Tuesday</a>, it called for a "new focus on the laity" within the Irish Catholic Church.</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;">The scandals had "opened many wounds", it said, and lay people had "lost trust in their pastors".</div><div style="text-align: justify;">The report acknowledged "innocent young people" were abused by clerics to whose care they had been entrusted. </div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;">It said that "those who should have exercised vigilance often failed to do so effectively".</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><b>'Tainted'</b></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;">The report also said that good priests felt "unjustly tainted" and not defended by superiors.</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;">"Bishops and superiors have often felt isolated as they sought to confront the wave of indignation and, at times, they have found it difficult to agree on a common line of action," the report said.</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;">It recommended continued support for the victims and survivors of Catholic clerical abuse in Ireland.</div><div style="text-align: justify;">The report also sought to bring the Irish Church back into line with the teachings of Rome.</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div id="story_continues_2" style="text-align: justify;">"The Visitators also encountered a certain tendency, not dominant but nevertheless fairly widespread among priests, religious and laity, to hold theological opinions at variance with the teachings of the Magisterium, this serious situation requires particular attention," said the report.</div><div id="story_continues_2" style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;">Finally, it also called on the Irish Catholic community to "makes its voice heard" in the media.</div><div style="text-align: justify;">It said that the community should establish "a proper relationship" with journalists with the aim of "making known the truth of the Gospel and the Church's life".</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;">Speaking after the publication of the report, Primate of Ireland Sean Brady said it was a "helpful snapshot of a key moment on the ongoing journey of renewal".</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;">He said Irish bishops wished to associate themselves with "the sense of pain and shame" expressed in the findings.</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;">"Innocent young people were abused by clerics and religious to whose care they had been entrusted, while those who should have exercised vigilance often failed to do so effectively," he said.</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;">Cardinal Brady called for a united Church.</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><b>Closed doors</b></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;">He particularly welcomed the Vatican's call for "a new focus on the laity" and the need for a "proper relationship" with the Irish media.</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;">Commenting on the report, Michael Kelly from the newspaper, the Irish Catholic, said: "There is a focus on the victims, a renewal of apologies and an acceptance of the great damage that has been done".</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;">Mr Kelly said the report carried "a very clear warning that says authentic renewal cannot be brought about by dissent from Church teaching."</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;">"There was a feeling that the spirit of the sixties had infected the seminaries too much," he said, adding that there was a sense of the current Pope looking forward to a Church where there might be "fewer but truer" Catholics.</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;">Colm O'Gorman, a high profile campaigner who sued the Catholic Church over the abuse he suffered as a child, called the report "farcical".</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;">He said the Church had to "be dragged kicking and screaming through the courts of opinion and the courts of law".</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;">"The suggestion that they are going to address this by dealing with the whole issue of contamination of seminarians is backward looking and disingenuous," he said.</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;">Margaret McGuckin from Survivors and Victims of Institutional Abuse, (Savia), was abused as a child at Nazareth House in Belfast.</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;">She and other members of her group met Cardinal Brady earlier this month to seek his cooperation in a forthcoming inquiry, ordered by the NI Executive, into allegations of clerical abuse in Northern Ireland.</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;">"We, in the north, have been ignored," she said.</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;">"They have set up a counselling service but many of our people ignore this. They find it hard to trust."</div><div style="text-align: justify;">The clerical abuse survivors' group, One in Four, said the Vatican was "still not accepting responsibility for its role in creating the culture of purposeful cover-ups of the sexual abuse of children." </div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;">Executive Director Maeve Lewis said: "While we welcome the findings of the Visitation that the Irish Church now has good child protection practices in place, we feel it is a lost opportunity to address the role played by the Vatican in perpetuating the policy of protecting abusive priests at the expense of children."</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;">"We also welcome the recommendation that the bishops and religious superiors should devote much time to listening to survivors and attending to their needs." </div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;">Ms Brennan claimed the group had noticed "a hardening of attitude on the part of the Church authorities to the question of compensation for survivors". </div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;">"This only compounds the pain and hurt of survivors. It brings into question the authenticity of the Church's repentance," she said.</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><b>Seven teams</b></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;">The report is a summary of what seven teams of Vatican-appointed church leaders observed when they visited four Archdioceses across Ireland over the last two years. </div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;">It looked at the Church' s dealings with survivors of abuse and current child protection policies.</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;">Some of the teams met victims and concerned Catholics in advertised locations, as well as individual survivors behind closed doors.</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;">The report was promised two years ago by Pope Benedict XVI in his letter to Catholics in Ireland.</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;">The Pope expressed horror in the wake of the Ryan and Murphy reports, which revealed a 70-year history of child abuse by a significant number of priests, brothers and nuns and cover-ups by their religious superiors.</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;">[Source: <a href="http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-northern-ireland-17442603">http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-northern-ireland-17442603</a> ]</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div></div>Amrita Purkayasthahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17332261784473353956noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4377701041087523408.post-6409981876918926072011-11-06T20:25:00.000+05:302011-11-06T20:26:17.518+05:30http://articles.cnn.com/2011-04-08/justice/utah.offender.release_1_abuse-competency-status-hearing?_s=PM:CRIME<p>A Utah judge has ordered a registered sex offender who faces nearly two dozen charges of child sex abuse released on the basis that he is mentally incompetent to stand trial.</p><p>At a hearing on Thursday, Fourth District Judge James Taylor, who previously ruled Lonnie Johnson incompetent to be tried on sex crime charges, said there were no legal grounds for holding him.</p><p>"We are at the end of the road...I can't do anything but have him released from the state hospital," Taylor said at Thursday's hearing.</p><div class="float" style="clear: both;"><img src="http://articles.cnn.com/images/pixel.gif" alt="" height="1" width="1" /></div><div id="area-main-center-road-block" style=""><div id="mod-ctr-rt-in-top" style="float: right;" class="mod-cnnadcnn"><center><div style="width: 300px;" class="ad_header"><br /></div></center></div><div id="mod-ctr-lt-in-top" style="float: left;" class="mod-adcpc"><br /></div></div><div class="float" style="clear: both;"><img src="http://articles.cnn.com/images/pixel.gif" alt="" height="1" width="1" /></div><p>Taylor said he was following a Utah statute requiring the release of anyone deemed incompetent to stand trial and who has not been convicted of a crime.</p><p>Johnson, 38, has been diagnosed with a cognitive disorder. Doctors who examined Johnson found his competency could not be restored. They also said he is not a danger to society and did not qualify for involuntary institutional commitment.</p><p>Johnson faces five counts of rape of a child, six counts of sodomy on a child and 10 counts of aggravated sexual abuse of a child, according to court documents.</p><p>In 2006, he was convicted of raping a teenage girl in Washington State, sent to prison for third-degree rape and served less than a year, according to court documents. He is required to register as a sex offender wherever he lives.</p><p>"I am outraged that a convicted child sex offender, currently facing another round of accusations, could be released without being tried for current charges," Utah Gov. Gary R. Herbert said.</p><p>"It's outrageous for both the victims and the accused that Mr. Johnson won't get his day in court," he said.</p><p>In November, a status hearing will be held under the judge's orders, and he will appoint two new doctors to evaluate Johnson.</p><p>Prosecutors have also filed a new motion asking the judge to reopen competency hearings in the criminal case.</p><p>"What I wanted to do was jump over and take care of it myself,'' said Christy Danner, whose daughter is an alleged victim of Johnson.</p><p>''But that's not what we can do and that's not the way our system works, and we're going to have to fix this system and then hopefully get him back in the state of Utah and find him competent,'' Danner said on HLN's "Nancy Grace."</p><p>Danner cited Johnson's previous ability to hold down jobs and earn a living, and said she thinks Johnson is faking incompetence.</p><p>Johnson allegedly abused Danner's daughter, who was his niece by marriage, for six years, starting at age eight in 1997. She is now 21.</p><p>Johnson's family has maintained his innocence, alleging the accusations are related to a bitter divorce case.</p><p>"We kind of knew going in today that he was going to be released so we were able to at least anticipate that," Danner said.</p><p>"But, yeah, we're not happy and the girls are feeling victimized again and our only thing is that we have to close this loophole."</p>dipanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11584779692326844255noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4377701041087523408.post-82151708049931814692011-11-06T20:23:00.000+05:302011-11-06T20:24:32.154+05:30Study: Most Child Abuse Goes Unreported<p>Children in highly developed countries suffer abuse and neglect much more often than is reported by official child-protective agencies, according to the findings of the first in a comprehensive series of reports on child maltreatment, published Dec. 2 in the British medical journal <i>The Lancet.</i> </p><p>Based on a review of research conducted on child abuse between 2000 and June of this year, researchers estimate that 4% to 16% of children are physically abused each year in high-income nations, including the United States, United Kingdom, Australia and Canada. As many as 15% are neglected, and up to 10% of girls and 5% of boys suffer severe sexual abuse; many more are victims of other sexual injury. Yet researchers say that as few as 1 in 10 of those instances of abuse are actually confirmed by social-service agencies — and that measuring the exact scope of the problem is nearly impossible. (<a href="http://www.time.com/time/specials/packages/0,28757,1860289,00.html" target="_blank">See the Year in Health, from A to Z.</a>)</p> <p>The issue lies in the delicate nature of the crimes — and the consequences of intervention. Many cases of abuse are rife with potential for long-term harm of the child, whether or not the assault is reported. The decision to report is rarely clear-cut, says Theresa Costello, director of the National Resource Center for Child Protective Services, who was not involved with the new research. "Professionals want to advocate for their clients, but they also know the reality of the public child-welfare system," she says. "There is a natural professional dilemma when you see a kid and you think, 'I should make a report,' but you're not sure you want to subject that child to the system."</p> <p>Indeed, the second study in the <i>Lancet</i> analysis, citing previous research, reveals that physicians reported only 6% of children's injury cases to protective services, even though they suspected the injury was a result of abuse 10% of the time. Further, researchers say that many more cases of maltreatment — particularly of sexual abuse — are never even suspected, and the victimized children never come forward to report the assaults.</p> <p>"The official statistics agencies produce are conservative estimates of probably the lowest level of child maltreatment," says Dr. Cathy Spatz Widom, a psychology professor at John Jay College of Criminal Justice, who specializes in the long-term effects of child abuse and is a lead author on one of the <i>Lancet</i> studies.</p> <p>Those numbers, researchers say, may now be on the rise. Historically, economic hardship has often corresponded with increases in child abuse, says Dr. Carole Jenny, a professor of pediatrics at Brown University and an expert in identifying and treating victims of child abuse, who authored a commentary in <i>The Lancet.</i> In the past six months, Jenny says she has seen increases in rates of maltreatment and heard similar reports from her colleagues. "I imagine that as the economy worsens, [child-abuse specialists are] only going to be more and more busy," she says, adding that the recession will likely mean less funding for already strained social services. "As the pressures on families are increasing markedly, the amount of help available goes down," she says.</p> <p>The new research underscores the fact that the most common type of child abuse in developed countries — simple neglect — is often the least publicized. The <i>Lancet</i> analysis finds that neglect is the No. 1 category of maltreatment reported by child-protective services. "We have paid much more attention to physical and sexual abuse. We have called people's attention to it. Even though neglect is the largest portion of cases, it's under everybody's radar," Widom says. "And yet we know that neglected children are at as high a risk as physically abused kids for becoming violent offenders, for example, or having low reading ability." (<a href="http://www.time.com/time/photogallery/0,29307,1698621,00.html" target="_blank">See pictures of a diverse group of American teens.</a>)</p> <p>Widom points to years of past research linking early childhood abuse to an increased possibility of long-term behavioral and psychological problems, ranging from low educational achievement to criminal behavior, risky sexual practices and even increased chance of obesity. "Child maltreatment has long-lasting effects across multiple domains of functioning. It's not just in childhood. It lasts into adulthood, and we are not really thinking about these long-term consequences, and we're not planning for them," she says.</p> <p>Yet there is no completely objective test for the presence of abuse. Identifying victimized children is often a subjective process, and caregivers may be wary of levying false accusations. Self-reports of abuse are frequently flawed and inaccurate as well, says Widom; they often produce the largest estimates of abuse incidence, but their definitions of maltreatment are overly broad. Even when children of abuse are correctly identified, not all caregivers know how to ensure their proper treatment. "There's no gold standard," Widom says.</p> <p>There is an effort afoot to rectify that problem. Brown University's Jenny is one of roughly 250 pediatricians across the U.S. whose specialty is the identification and prevention of child abuse, and the field is gaining momentum — and standardization. By 2012, a three-year postresidency fellowship will be required of all new pediatricians who wish to specialize in child abuse. And the National Association of Children's Hospitals has advocated requiring all children's medical institutions to have a child-abuse specialist on staff.</p> <p>The ultimate goal is to prevent abuse in the first place, says Widom, and to protect the well-being of children who have been victimized. "It would be wrong to assume that all maltreated children are going to turn out to have all of these problems," she says.</p><div style="overflow: hidden; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); background-color: transparent; text-align: left; text-decoration: none; border: medium none;"><br />Read more: <a style="color: rgb(0, 51, 153);" href="http://www.time.com/time/health/article/0,8599,1863650,00.html#ixzz1cwGM9PKB">http://www.time.com/time/health/article/0,8599,1863650,00.html#ixzz1cwGM9PKB</a><br /></div>dipanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11584779692326844255noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4377701041087523408.post-76916328251465915022011-11-06T20:21:00.000+05:302011-11-06T20:22:28.180+05:30Cloistered Shame in Israel By TIM McGIRK/JERUSALEM<span class="lingo_region"><p>Among Israel's ultra-orthodox Jews, the Haredim, social workers are often called "child-snatchers" and the police "Cossacks," harking back to the 19th century pogroms against Jews in Russia. These cloistered communities, in which women are expected to raise and financially support their large families while their husbands spend their days stooped over the Torah, make up 10% of Israel's population and a third of Jerusalem's, and consider themselves defenders of a core morality in Jewish society. But that moral authority has come under scrutiny since evidence began to emerge in March of incest, rape and child abuse in four different ultra-orthodox enclaves around the country. </p> <p>Over the last few weeks the Cossacks have arrived wearing the uniform of the Israeli national police force. In a series of raids following tip-offs from victims' relatives, neighbors and hospital workers, the police have arrested ultra-orthodox wives, husbands and yeshiva students. </p> <p>Community elders were at first appalled. Now they are grateful for the intervention. "The Haredim are shocked by these cases," says Noach Korman, a Haredi attorney in the rabbinical court that adjudicates family and religious law, and the director of a shelter for battered wives. "At first they said, 'These people are crazy, they don't belong to us.' But now I hear Haredi voices saying: 'We should examine ourselves and not close our eyes to why these things are happening.' "Says Naomi Ragen, an orthodox woman who is an author and advocate for gender equality: "These shocking things had to come out. There was no more room left under the carpet." </p> <p>Sex predators operate with ease among the ultra-orthodox communities because female victims often keep quiet, knowing that to speak out will damage their prospects of finding a husband. "The families all want their girls to have a AAA marriage to a religious scholar from a good family, and nobody's going to marry a girl who gets raped," says Ragen. In Bnei Brak, a predominately Haredi city near Tel Aviv, social worker Doron Agasi says one young Haredi man told him that he had molested more than a hundred girls. Agasi, director of the Shlom Banaich Fellowship, the only organization in Israel that treats pedophiles and their victims, convinced the young man to confess to the police. But, says Agasi, the authorities refused to bring charges because none of the parents of the alleged victims had filed complaints. Agasi says the rapist is now roaming free. </p> <p>Convincing the Haredi to work with police and social workers has been a struggle, says Miki Miller, a social worker in the newly built Haredi town of Kiryat Sefer near Jerusalem. "The Haredi believe that a closed society is a pure society," she says. But a closed society can hide a multitude of sins. A senior police officer in Jerusalem acknowledges that the instincts of the Haredi community to cover up such crimes undermines the authorities' ability to investigate and prosecute offenders: "We're aware of this phenomenon of sex abuse among Haredis, but an extremely low number of these cases are ever reported." </p> <p>The first port of call for Haredi families faced with violence or sex crimes is often their rabbi. But religious leaders themselves have not been immune from accusations of abuse. On April 6, a Jerusalem court indicted a Haredi mother of eight for child abuse in light of evidence that she broke her two toddlers' bones with hammers, forced the children to eat feces, and locked them inside a suitcase for hours. The alleged abuses came to light only after her three-year-old son was taken to hospital in a coma with brain damage. The woman claimed she was driving "devils" from her children following instructions from her religious counselor Elior Chen, who has since fled to Canada. Israeli police are seeking his extradition. </p> <p>In Beit Shemesh, a town near Jerusalem, another case of abuse centered on a self-styled female "rabbi" who hid her face entirely behind a black veil. Her religious modesty attracted dozens of Haredi female disciples over several years, but her own sister was frantically seeking police intervention to stop the woman from thrashing her children with a rolling pin. Neighbors say she allegedly left her kids tied for hours to a garden tree. After her arrest, one of her children, now an adult, told police that his mother had encouraged incest among her offspring when they were younger.<br /></p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p></span><p>The majority of ultra-orthodox families are orderly and loving, but for some mothers, the stress of raising an average of seven to eight children while holding down a job is too much to handle. Haredi men place a higher value on spiritual learning than on money or possessions; devout husbands, who wear black hats and long-tailed coats modeled on those of 18th century Polish noblemen, are expected only to study. And when they are abusive, their wives often cover up to preserve the family's honor. Says Ragen: "You hear the Haredi women say: 'I took the stain on me so that my husband could be as white as snow.' " </p> <p>Social workers at Jerusalem's shelter for battered Haredi women say that family violence often erupts during the ritual Shabbat dinner, when all children are gathered — tempers flare over mundane arguments and the husband strikes his wife. A wife may endure such treatment for years. But the number of women who call a 24-hour hotline for battered Haredi women has jumped from 477 calls in 2004 to 1,402 last year. Social workers attribute the increase to a new generation of rabbis urging women to speak out against domestic violence. </p> <p>Yet many Jewish feminists say that women are more repressed than ever inside Israel's Haredi community. Anat Zuria, a respected filmmaker who focuses on the Haredim, says that many Haredi now believe that, according to Biblical prophecy, Judgment Day is fast approaching. "The Haredi are becoming more Messianic, and they believe the Messiah will only come if there's purity and modesty among women," she says. To that end, boys and girls are segregated early on. "Everything about sexuality is unmentionable," says Zuria. "There's no Internet, no TV, no books, but you can't kill off the erotic impulse." Author Ragen concurs: "All of these taboos don't necessarily make them saints. Sometimes they become perverts." </p> <p>That realization is sinking in with some socially conscious rabbis. In Febuary, Rabbi Meir Kessler from Kiryat Sefer called two late-night meetings in which 3,000 parents were urged to warn their children that even men in beards and hats are capable of evil. The rabbi's candid sermon has stirred debate among the shuttered Haredim. One stunned participant told reporters that "not since Moses" had a rabbi spoken publicly on such forbidden sexual topics. The spate of abuse cases prompted Israel's chief Ashkenazi rabbi, Yona Metzger, to call on his fellow religious leaders "to vomit these parents and rabbis out of the camp and do everything in our power to save the souls of these young children." </p> <p>More openness is the only way to catch offenders and root out the culture that permits them to operate. Teachers in some Haredi primary schools and yeshivas are now taught how to recognize such telltale sights of abuse as sudden moodiness or aggression, injuries or indecent behavior towards other students. In early spring, a teacher in the southern town of Nativot caught one child sexually accosting another. Social workers investigated and found that the boy's mother said she had sex with her child as a way to "punish" her husband for having left her. </p> <p>It's hard to find positives in such stories. Yet it is better that they come to light than that they remain the dark secret of the Haredi. In Bnei Brak, police say one rapist in ultra-orthodox garb is stalking preteen girls, cornering them in dark hallways or in parks. It took weeks before religious elders alerted the police to the sexual predator, who has yet to be caught. But authorities say it is a sign of changing times that the Haredi children, and their parents, did not endure these crimes in silence. </p><div style="overflow: hidden; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); background-color: transparent; text-align: left; text-decoration: none; border: medium none;"><br />Read more: <a style="color: rgb(0, 51, 153);" href="http://www.time.com/time/magazine/article/0,9171,1809880,00.html#ixzz1cwFhzjpD">http://www.time.com/time/magazine/article/0,9171,1809880,00.html#ixzz1cwFhzjpD</a><br /></div><div style="overflow: hidden; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); background-color: transparent; text-align: left; text-decoration: none; border: medium none;"><br />Read more: <a style="color: rgb(0, 51, 153);" href="http://www.time.com/time/magazine/article/0,9171,1809880,00.html#ixzz1cwFZwxmd">http://www.time.com/time/magazine/article/0,9171,1809880,00.html#ixzz1cwFZwxmd</a><br /></div>dipanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11584779692326844255noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4377701041087523408.post-30997800260737987962011-11-06T20:18:00.000+05:302011-11-06T20:20:29.178+05:30Is Child Abuse On the Decline? By Laura BlueThe number of maltreated children in the U.S. has fallen steadily in the last two decades, according to a <a href="http://www.unh.edu/ccrc/pdf/CV203_Updated%20Trends%20in%20Child%20Maltreatment%202008_8-6-10.pdf" target="_blank">report this week</a> from the Crimes Against Children Research Center at the University of New Hampshire. <p>Overall, physical-abuse cases per capita fell 3% between and 2007 and 2008 (the most recent year for which stats are available). Meanwhile sexual abuse fell by 6%, the report says. These figures continue long-term downward trends in the rate of physical and sexual abuse nationwide -- with most states reporting cumulative drops of over 50% since 1992 -- although neglect cases per capita seem to have remained fairly stable.<span id="more-6780"></span></p> <p>Sound too good to be true? All of that data comes from the National Child Abuse and Neglect Data System, which began compiling the stats in 1990 from states' child-protection agencies. The numbers are based on "substantiated" abuse cases only -- where substantiated means that the cases were reported to a child-protection agency and investigated, and that the agency then found "a preponderance of evidence" to suggest maltreatment. But while it may sound as if the trend could be just a trick of the data then -- states could have simply decided to investigate fewer cases over time, for example -- the new report argues that the decline in abuse is very real. A separate study found similar declines in child abuse using different methods, according to the report: Researchers conducting the recent National Incidence Study of Child Abuse and Neglect talked to workers in schools, hospitals and day cares about abuse, without looking at state investigations at all. And victim self-reports show the same pattern too, with declines in the number of children reporting physical and sexual abuse throughout the 1990s and 2000s. It would appear, then, that the good news is genuine. There really is less child abuse than there used to be.</p> <p>The report states:</p> <blockquote><p>There is currently no consensus in the child maltreatment field about why sexual abuse and physical abuse have declined so substantially, although a recent article and book suggest some possible factors (Finkelhor & Jones, 2006; <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Childhood-Victimization-Violence-People-Interpersonal/dp/0195342852/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1282679653&sr=1-1" target="_blank">Finkelhor, 2008</a>). The period when sexual and physical abuse started the dramatic downward trend was marked by sustained economic improvement, increases in the numbers of law enforcement and child protection personnel, more aggressive prosecution and incarceration policies, growing public awareness about the problems, and the dissemination of new treatment options for family and mental health problems, including new psychiatric medication. While some have suggested community notification laws as a possible explanatory factor, the passage and implementation of these laws actually occurred well after the sexual abuse decline was underway.</p></blockquote> <p>Over the same 1990 - 2008 period, however, the number of neglect cases per capita has barely budged. The report suggests that this may be the case because neglect "has not been the subject of the same level of policy attention and public awareness as sexual and physical abuse."</p> <div style="overflow: hidden; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); background-color: transparent; text-align: left; text-decoration: none; border: medium none;"><br />Read more: <a style="color: rgb(0, 51, 153);" href="http://healthland.time.com/2010/08/24/is-child-abuse-on-the-decline/#ixzz1cwF8D32L">http://healthland.time.com/2010/08/24/is-child-abuse-on-the-decline/#ixzz1cwF8D32L</a><br /></div>dipanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11584779692326844255noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4377701041087523408.post-57963013243375099352011-11-06T19:59:00.003+05:302011-11-06T20:17:54.036+05:30Erin's Law: When the Abuser Is No Stranger Read more: http://www.time.com/time/nation/article/0,8599,2022124,00.html#ixzz1cwAyfHYM<p>Throughout her school years, Erin Merryn of Schaumburg, Ill., received plenty of lessons in the dangers her elders thought she could encounter during her childhood. She was taught how to ride out a tornado, instructed in the eight steps for turning down illegal drugs, and told how to react to a friendly stranger who might try to abduct her. But nothing prepared her for two traumatizing events that have turned Merryn, now 25, into an activist, determined to prevent the same thing from happening to other children.</p> <p>The first episode began on a warm May night in 1991. Merryn, then 6, was excited about her first sleepover with her kindergarten classmate Ashley. After an evening of playing with Ashley's dollhouse and watching <i>The Little Mermaid</i>, the girls went to bed in Ashley's room. Merryn lay on blankets on the floor next to Ashley, who was in her bed. In the wee hours of the night, Ashley's uncle "Richard" (not his real name), who lived in the house with his niece, appeared in the darkened room. He sat down in front of Merryn and put his finger to his lips signaling her to remain quiet. Seconds later his hand was down her pants. Merryn was as bewildered as she was frightened. "I didn't understand what was going on," she says. "I just stared at the ceiling waiting for it to end." Her friend slept through the assault, and Merryn remained silent. <span class="see"><a href="http://www.time.com/time/health/article/0,8599,1863650,00.html" target="_blank">(Read why most child abuse goes unreported)</a></span></p> <p>Merryn kept her confusion to herself. She didn't want to stop visiting her friend but tried to find times when Richard wasn't around. She wasn't always successful. The man, then in his late 20s, abused her several more times in the next year, including, she says, raping her during a daytime visit when she thought he wouldn't be home. </p> <p>When Merryn eventually confided in Ashley about what had happened, her friend was not surprised; in fact, the scene was depressingly familiar to her. But Ashley begged her not to say anything because Richard had told her they would "lose the house" if the girls told anyone. Says Merryn: "[Ashley] made me pinky promise not to say anything."</p> <p>Merryn's family, including her two sisters, moved to another neighborhood in the same town when Merryn was 8, and she stopped seeing Ashley. But at age 11, Merryn's second nightmare began. At a family gathering at her grandparents' lake house, she awoke in the middle of the night to find her cousin "Brian" (again, not his real name), then 13, lying next to her with his hands down her underwear. He continued to abuse her on and off for nearly two years, she says, often at holidays and celebrations with her close-knit extended family. He cornered her in basements, bathrooms and bedrooms, always reminding her that she shouldn't bother telling anyone because no one would believe her. It ended only after a chance conversation between Merryn and one of her sisters, who blurted out one day that their cousin Brian was "gross." Merryn realized he had been molesting her sister too. They talked for hours about what had happened, and the next day told their parents about their shared horror. </p><br /><p>The family pressed charges against Brian, who ultimately admitted to three counts of sexual abuse. The case never went to trial, and Brian received some counseling, but no punishment. The two families have ceased having contact.</p> <p>Merryn's experiences belie the more common parental fears of "stranger danger." Young children tend to hear a lot of messages about avoiding interactions with people they don't know, when in reality they are far more likely to face harm from a relative or family friend. Victims of abuse know their perpetrators 80% to 90% of the time, says David Finkelhor, director of the Crimes Against Children Research Center at the University of New Hampshire.</p><br /><p>For a long time, Merryn didn't know what to do with her anger and fear as an abused child. She spent one afternoon at a park breaking discarded bottles. She didn't tell any adults what had happened to her. "I didn't realize that what had happened wasn't my fault. I didn't know the difference between a safe and an unsafe secret," Merryn says. Later, she helped herself heal by writing two books about her experiences (<i>Stolen Innocence</i> and <i>Living for Today</i>).</p> <p>Now she is moving into political action. Earlier this year, Merryn reached out to Illinois legislators about the need for schools to adopt age-appropriate curriculum on child sexual abuse. Republican state senator Tim Bivins championed what became known as "Erin's Law," which passed the state senate unanimously. The legislation, which is expected to be taken up by the House in November, would create a task force to devise strategies for reducing child sexual abuse throughout the state and permit school boards to implement similar measures. The aim is to bring into the classroom (for students from pre-K through fifth grade) what is seldom discussed openly: that even trusted family members and friends can pose a threat to their well-being. Teachers would also be trained to recognize warning signs that their students have been sexually abused, including mood swings or acting distant at odd times, and be able to tell students where to go for assistance if they have been victimized. </p><p>A poised and charismatic speaker, Merryn has traveled the country making speeches to law-enforcement and abuse-prevention groups. And she will soon tell her story on <i>Oprah</i>, which she hopes will give her effort the jolt it needs to become a nationwide movement. </p> <p>Erin's Law would not be the first statewide effort to tackle this issue. Ohio and New Jersey have statewide mandates to implement abuse-prevention programs in their schools, according to Finkelhor, and Texas passed a similar prevention measure in 2009. The problem, Finkelhor says, is getting schools to focus on the issue at a time when resources are limited and their priorities are on beefing up academic programs — which has put ancillary efforts such as anti-bullying and mental-health issues on the back burner. "I don't think schools would be resistant to the idea that this prevention is needed," he says. "But there are so many other demands on them these days." Nor are they likely to have the resources to provide the kind of intensive curriculum that is necessary. A guest speaker for 45 minutes wouldn't be very helpful, says Finkelhor: "The best programs are very intensive and expensive."<span class="see"><a href="http://www.time.com/time/world/article/0,8599,2003389,00.html" target="_blank">(Read about a child abuse case in Vietnam.)</a></span></p> <p>The attention on sexual abuse of children in recent years, along with increases in the numbers of law-enforcement and child-protection personnel, has made an impact. According to Finkelhor, national child maltreatment data show that the rate of sex abuse against children under 18 declined 58% between 1992 and 2008, when the number of substantiated cases was reported to be a still disturbing 68,500. As Finkelhor notes, "It's still a major source of trauma and long-term dysfunction in children." </p> <p>Merryn, who got a master's degree in social work, focusing on sexual-abuse prevention, is determined to keep up her campaign to make her cause a national movement. "I don't want parents to think they need to put a bubble around their kids 24/7," she says. "We need to give kids the knowledge and tools they need to come forward when something happens. I had my innocence taken. I don't want it to happen to anyone else."</p><div style="overflow: hidden; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); background-color: transparent; text-align: left; text-decoration: none; border: medium none;"><br />Read more: <a style="color: rgb(0, 51, 153);" href="http://www.time.com/time/nation/article/0,8599,2022124,00.html#ixzz1cwEgBu1c">http://www.time.com/time/nation/article/0,8599,2022124,00.html#ixzz1cwEgBu1c</a><br /></div><br />Read more: <a style="color: rgb(0, 51, 153);" href="http://www.time.com/time/nation/article/0,8599,2022124,00.html#ixzz1cwEcffva">http://www.time.com/time/nation/article/0,8599,2022124,00.html#ixzz1cwEcffva</a>dipanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11584779692326844255noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4377701041087523408.post-58864688769180180782011-03-17T02:21:00.004+05:302011-03-17T02:33:32.210+05:30'World's largest paedophile ring' uncovered<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on"><div style="color: #660000; text-align: justify;"><b><span class="byline"> <span class="byline-name">By Dominic Casciani</span> <span class="byline-title"> </span></span></b></div><div style="color: #660000; text-align: justify;"><b><span class="byline"><span class="byline-title">BBC News home affairs correspondent</span></span><span class="date"> </span></b></div><div style="color: #660000; text-align: justify;"><br />
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<div class="introduction" id="story_continues_1"><b>International police led by a UK team say they shut down the largest internet paedophile ring yet discovered. </b></div><div class="introduction" id="story_continues_1"><br />
</div>The global forum had 70,000 followers at its height, leading to 4,000 intelligence reports being sent to police across 30 countries.<br />
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The operation has so far identified 670 suspects and 230 abused children.<br />
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Detectives say 184 people have been arrested - 121 of them were in the UK. Some 60 children have been protected in the UK.<br />
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The three-year investigation, Operation Rescue, was led by investigators from the UK's Child Exploitation and Online Protection Centre (Ceop).<br />
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Speaking at a news conference at The Hague in the Netherlands, investigators said the network hid behind a legal online forum which operated out of the country - but its members came from around the world. <br />
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Along with the Netherlands and the UK, suspects have been identified in Australia, Italy, Canada, New Zealand and Thailand.<br />
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The members of the network went into a private channel, boylover.net, and then used its secret systems to share films and images of abused children, said Rob Wainwright, director of European police agency Europol.<br />
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However, child abuse investigators, including a team from Ceop, had already infiltrated the network and were posing as paedophiles to gather intelligence. <br />
In the UK, the 240 suspects include police officers, teachers and a karate teacher. One of the suspects in the UK is a woman.<br />
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To date, 33 have been convicted, including John McMurdo, a scout leader from Plymouth. Another forum user was Stephen Palmer, 54, of Birkenhead, who shared abuse images with contacts in the US. A third man, 46-year-old Colin Hoey Brown of Bromsgrove, was jailed for making and distributing almost 1,000 images.<br />
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Peter Davies, head of Ceop, said: "The scale and success of Operation Rescue has broken new ground.<br />
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<div id="story_continues_2">"Not only is it one of the largest operations of its kind to date - and the biggest operation we have led - it also demonstrates the impact of international law enforcement agencies working together with one single objective, to safeguard children and bring offenders to justice. </div><div id="story_continues_2"><br />
</div>"While these offenders felt anonymous in some way because they were using the internet to communicate, the technology was actually being used against them. <br />
"Everything they did online, everyone they talked to or anything they shared could and was tracked by following the digital footprint."<br />
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Operation Rescue began when Ceop and colleagues in the Australian Federal Police separately identified the site as a key online meeting place for abusers.<br />
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The two forces deployed officers to infiltrate the site and to identify the members who were posing the most risk to children.<br />
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One of the early breakthroughs in the investigation was the arrest of four suspects in Thailand in 2008. Two of the men were British.<br />
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In March of the same year, Ceop identified the owner of the site and the location of its server in the Netherlands. The owner of the server is now co-operating with Dutch police.<br />
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Rob Wainwright of Europol said the man running the server had used "advanced security techniques" which took months to break down.<br />
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"If you think you can use the internet to abuse children you are wrong," he said. <br />
"We will not allow these offenders to carry on committing these awful crimes against young children. We will not rest until we have identified every offender that has been active in this network and others that might be operating on the internet."<br />
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<h2>Analysis</h2><div class="byline"><span class="byline-picture"><img alt="image of Danny Shaw" src="http://news.bbcimg.co.uk/media/images/48372000/jpg/_48372269_000105904-1.jpg" /></span> </div><div class="byline"><span class="byline-name">Danny Shaw</span> <span class="byline-title"> </span></div><div class="byline"><span class="byline-title">Home affairs correspondent, </span></div><div class="byline"><span class="byline-title">BBC News</span> <br />
<hr /></div>The internet has proved to be fertile territory for people with a sexual interest in children.<br />
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Those wishing to explore their feelings or satisfy their urges can spend hours doing so without having to leave their room. Taking advantage of the anonymity modern computer technology provides, paedophiles download and exchange vile images of abuse unaware of the reality of the suffering.<br />
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For some years, however, child protection agencies have been on their case. By pretending to be online sex offenders and by using sophisticated computer techniques, they've managed to identify offenders and locate suspect websites. So it was with Operation Rescue.<br />
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What marks it out is its global scale. But in UK terms, it still lags behind Operation Ore - an investigation into 7,000 people from Britain whose credit cards were used to access child abuse images on a US website.</div><div class="story-body"></div><div class="story-body"></div><div class="story-body"></div><div class="story-body"></div><div class="story-body"></div><div class="story-body"></div><div class="story-body"><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">With the recent allegation that a EuroKids teacher molested a toddler, Podar Education Network has decided to educate children as young as three to five years of age on how to distinguish a good touch from a bad touch.</span></div><div style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;"><br />
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</tbody> </table>The Santacruz school recently showed a CD with a powerpoint presentation – of an animated elephant helping children identify an uncomfortable overture from an adult- to its Kindergarten students. The CD was also shared with parents of toddlers and bus attendants, who interact with children daily. The presentation tells children about the parts of their body and teaches them which ones they should not allow others to touch. <br />
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Red is used to alert them about private parts. The presentation also talks about who can touch them - parents, grandparents, doctors - and who they should be wary of - in this case lift attendants, drivers. The CD is interactive and seeks feedback from its young viewers so they learn to identify what makes them uncomfortable. <br />
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For instance, a child who likes being tickled gives it a thumbs up and a child who doesn’t gives it a thumbs down. It helps them recognise if they like a certain gesture or not and express their discomfort.<br />
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Swati Popat Vats, president of Podar Education Network, said the school plans to take this presentation to other institutions as well. “We have written a letter to principals of several schools and are hoping they show this path-breaking CD to young children.” <br />
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Sonia Gada, a parent said, “It is difficult for me to articulate what I know about this to my child. The graphics and the cartoon have taught my child what I couldn’t teach.”<br />
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Harish Iyer, activist and survivor of child sex <a class="tt" href="http://cms.mumbaimirror.com/ads.aspx?adid=3" target="_blank"><span class="tooltip"><span class="middle"></span></span></a>abuse, said, “Had I known these things when I was six, I would not have been sexually abused. We should not be squeamish in letting children know the names of their body parts so they have the vocabulary to express themselves.”<br />
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Samir Dalwai, who is associated with the National Commission for Protection of Child Rights, said, “It is extremely important to discuss the issue of child sex <a class="tt" href="http://cms.mumbaimirror.com/ads.aspx?adid=3" target="_blank"><span class="tooltip"><span class="middle"></span></span></a>abuse with children. The CD educates children in an appealing, friendly and a non-threatening manner.”<br />
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<b><span style="background-color: #cc0000; color: white;"> Child abuse on the rise </span></b><br />
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A study on child sexual abuse conducted in 13 states by the Ministry of Women and Child Development in 2007 shows that out of the 12,447 children interviewed, more than 53 per cent had faced one or more forms of sexual abuse. The figures were published in a report titled, Child Abuse : India 2007</span></div><div style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;"><br />
</span></div><div style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;"><b><span style="color: #cc0000;">• </span></b>More than 53 per cent children interviewed during the study faced one or more forms of sexual abuse</span></div><div style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;"><b><span style="color: #cc0000;">• </span></b>Almost 22 per cent faced severe sexual abuse, 6 per cent sexually assaulted</span></div><div style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;"><b><span style="color: #cc0000;">• </span></b>50 per cent sexual offenders were known to the victim or were in positions of trust (family member, close relative, friend or neighbour).</span></div><div style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;"><b><span style="color: #cc0000;">• </span></b>Children in the 5-12 year's group faced higher levels of abuse that were largely unreported.</span></div><div style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;"><b><span style="color: #cc0000;">• </span></b>Boys were equally at risk as girls.</span></div><div style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;"><b><span style="color: #cc0000;">• </span></b>73 per cent of the victims were in age groups of 11 to 18 years<br />
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<b><span style="color: #cc0000;">Slideshow says...</span></b><br />
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<b><span style="color: #cc0000;">• </span></b>Whatever a child is comfortable with is called a safe touch <br />
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<b><span style="color: #cc0000;">• </span></b>What a child is uncomfortable with is called unsafe or bad touch<br />
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<b><span style="color: #cc0000;">• </span></b>It is not okay for anyone to touch your private parts<br />
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<b><span style="color: #cc0000;">• </span></b>If you are abused, it is not your fault, tell your parents about it<br />
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<b><span style="color: #cc0000;">Childline: 1098</span></b></span><br />
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[Link to the Report of the National Survey "<span style="font-size: small;">Child Abuse : India 2007</span>" : Click <a href="http://www.wcd.nic.in/childabuse.pdf">here</a>] </div>Amrita Purkayasthahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17332261784473353956noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4377701041087523408.post-68765930435721441112010-10-02T06:10:00.000+05:302010-10-02T06:10:47.811+05:30How Can I ‘Be Myself’ If I Don’t Know Who That Is?<div style="color: #660000; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: small;">Sep 30th, 2010 | By <a href="http://overcomingsexualabuse.com/author/christina-enevoldsen/" title="Posts by Christina Enevoldsen">Christina Enevoldsen</a> | Category: <a href="http://overcomingsexualabuse.com/category/posts/" rel="category tag" title="View all posts in All Posts">All Posts</a>, <a href="http://overcomingsexualabuse.com/category/christinas-blog/" rel="category tag" title="View all posts in Christina's Blog">Christina's Blog</a></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><small> </small> </div><div style="text-align: justify;">“In every block of marble I see a statue as plain as though it stood before me, shaped and perfect in attitude and action. I have only to hew away the rough walls that imprison the lovely apparition to reveal it to the other eyes as mine see it.” Michelangelo</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div> </div><div style="text-align: justify;">It’s completely fascinating to me to consider how Michelangelo created. The sculptor imagined the finished work before he lifted the chisel to the stone. He didn’t see the marble block; he saw the image underneath. He recognized what it was, and then simply removed what it was not.</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;"> </div><div style="text-align: justify;">I’m no Michelangelo, but I am creating a masterpiece—or rather, revealing one. My childhood sexual abuse encased me in a false identity and covered me in a shroud of lies. My false self wasn’t stone, but it imprisoned me just the same. My healing process is the chiseling away at the falsehoods to free my true self.</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;"> </div><div style="text-align: justify;"> </div><div style="text-align: justify;">The trouble is that I’ve never had the clarity of Michelangelo. The only Christina I’ve ever known was the one who adapted to the abuse. The lies entrapped me for so long that I felt I didn’t exist apart from them. How could I have a vision for someone I’ve never seen? That was my question when I began my healing. I didn’t know the answer but I was determined to rescue my true image just as the great artist rescued his beauties from the stone. </div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;"> </div><div style="text-align: justify;">The lies were layered. First, the abuse told me lies about myself and then I told other lies about myself to cover up the first lies. The lies from the abuse told me I was only good for sex, that I was somehow flawed as a person, too dirty and used for someone to love me. I wasn’t aware that it was the abuse that told me that. I thought I was abused because those things were already true. I thought I was inherently worthless so I deserved to be passed around. </div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;"> </div><div style="text-align: justify;">I reacted to those lies by trying to ‘prove’ they weren’t true. I knew they were—they were true to me—but I was hoping people would be fooled by my facade. One of my false selves was the “hard worker”. I projected an image of responsibility, maturity, and dependability. It was my uniform that informed people that they needed to keep me around because I was useful. The more shame I felt and the more I thought my masks were ‘slipping’, the more I asserted them. They became hardened around me. I didn’t know where they stopped and I began. </div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;"> </div><div style="text-align: justify;">As I recognized that I was misinformed about my value, I shed the lies. The truth is that I am valuable because I exist. My value isn’t affected by what happened to me. I didn’t do those things; they were done to me and it was not a reflection on me. It wasn’t because I was bad. It was because my abusers were bad. I don’t have anything to conceal anymore because I’m wonderfully made. </div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;"> </div><div style="text-align: justify;">I thought I needed to perceive who I was supposed to be before I could make myself into that image. The truth is that I don’t need to see or ‘make’ myself into anything. I am who I am. I was so used to contorting myself into certain roles that I thought I would ‘achieve’ the real me the same way. All I’ve really needed to do is remove the lies. Then the truth is revealed. </div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;"> </div><div style="text-align: justify;">The real me is emerging. I’m learning more about myself every day and the sense of wonder and excitement and expectation fill me. The real me is coming out without even really thinking about it. It’s natural and unrehearsed. It’s effortless. As I heal and the masks fall off, the genuine Christina is revealed. She’s been there all along.</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;"> </div><div style="text-align: justify;">It’s ironic that I thought I’d prove my value by covering myself up, yet a work of art can only be appreciated when it can be seen. The healing process is referred to as recovery, but I’ve been covered up long enough and I don’t want to be re-covered. Maybe it’s more accurate to call this my uncovery—the grand unveiling of this masterpiece. BEAUTIFUL!</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;"> </div>Amrita Purkayasthahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17332261784473353956noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4377701041087523408.post-18669243602669827012010-09-19T18:44:00.000+05:302010-09-19T18:44:42.950+05:30Watch '30 Days in September' and support ArpanHi,<br />
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<b>Arpan presents '30 Days in September'</b><br />
<b>(A Primetime Theatre Company Production)</b><br />
<b>Scripted by: Mahesh Dattani & Directed by: Lillete Dubey</b><br />
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<b>Date: 2nd october, 2010. Time: 7:30 - 9:30 pm.</b><br />
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Please see details below.<br />
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We hope you will support Arpan by removing some time on 2nd October to come and watch the play. Please block this date and time in your calendar!<br />
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You could also buy bulk passes and have your colleagues from companies, organisations, schools come in to watch the play. Help spread awareness on child sexual abuse and support Arpan!<br />
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We look forward to seeing you! Please do forward this to your contacts in Bombay and help spread the word around.<br />
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Thank you!<br />
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Warm wishes,<br />
Pooja Taparia<br />
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<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgJEDSdJG52HImrYJeH95LjIz5X7YwfJ0BYVEU63umWZ5ExrqC1SpTEx5wOVTaYukr2v4c2I_zLkgQnBinZ9xlFPTe0elRSY7ynWknNTDBWAPnI4nd4QgTeZGt7AFj7rxEpVMqVWln-gZsU/s1600/dfs.png" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="640" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgJEDSdJG52HImrYJeH95LjIz5X7YwfJ0BYVEU63umWZ5ExrqC1SpTEx5wOVTaYukr2v4c2I_zLkgQnBinZ9xlFPTe0elRSY7ynWknNTDBWAPnI4nd4QgTeZGt7AFj7rxEpVMqVWln-gZsU/s640/dfs.png" width="449" /></a></div>Amrita Purkayasthahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17332261784473353956noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4377701041087523408.post-13951424689521364992010-07-19T14:17:00.006+05:302010-07-19T15:14:22.713+05:30Tulir workshops - Focus on Prevention<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; margin: 0in 0in 0pt; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 100%;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">Hello! <br />
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Greetings from Tulir - Centre For The Prevention & Healing of Child Sexual Abuse, is a registered non profit Trust, based in Chennai, committed to working against child sexual abuse (CSA) in India. Tulir's vision is the right of every child to be safe all the time from sexual abuse. Our programming is grounded in a zealous belief of awareness, prevention, and community and professional response sector involvement. <br />
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</a></span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; margin: 0in 0in 0pt; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 100%;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;"><span style="color: black;">The series ( details pasted below), are spread over 5 days between Aug. 2 - Aug 6, </span><span style="color: black;">at Chennai and will </span> cost Rs. 2000/- per person and will be in English. For students pursuing a formal course of education, discounts are available. Vegetarian lunch, tea and workshop materials will be provided. Registration is limited to the first 50 persons against advance payment and will close by July 30, 2010. It is mandatory that participants attend the entire series to benefit optimally. <br />
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</style> </div><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;">Day 1<b>: The Essentials of Child Sexual Abuse Prevention: What it is, why it is necessary, and how you can help</b><b><span style="font-family: Latha;"><o:p></o:p></span></b></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Latha;"> </span>Learn about comprehensive approaches to sexual abuse prevention</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;">Understand the importance of prevention efforts</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;">Determine concrete ways in which you can become more engaged with keeping children safe</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;">Day 2: <b>Building a Prevention Program within your Agency or Organization<o:p></o:p></b></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Latha;"> </span>Learn the steps in expanding your work to include prevention efforts</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;">Essential ingredients for program success</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;">Policy efforts, evidence-based practice, and evaluation of programs</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;">Day 3: <b>School Based Prevention Education on Child Sexual Abuse<o:p></o:p></b></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Latha;"> </span>Ways to involve schools in child sexual abuse prevention</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;">Barriers to successful school-based programs</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;">Overcoming challenges in your school</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;">Day 4: <b>Working with High Risk Groups, including children with disabilities</b><span style="font-family: Latha;"><o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Latha;"> </span>What groups of children are at particularly high risk for being abused?</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;">Involving adults, including bystanders, in intervening on behalf of children</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;">Challenges and successes in working with children with disabilities</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;">Day 5: <b>Addressing Trauma in Children<o:p></o:p></b></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Latha;"> </span>Assessing for traumatic reactions</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;">Crisis intervention versus longer term interventions</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Latha;"> </span>Working with multiple traumas in a child/community</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Latha;"> </span>Best practices for work with traumatized children<span style="font-family: Latha;"><o:p></o:p></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div>Amrita Purkayasthahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17332261784473353956noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4377701041087523408.post-3146555955325059282010-07-06T17:05:00.004+05:302010-07-19T15:36:48.533+05:30Child sex abuse bill in monsoon session<p class="MsoNormal"><i><span style="font-size: 14pt; color: black;"></span></i><span style="color: windowtext;"></span><br />
<span style="font-style: italic;">Special Courts Likely To Try Offenders </span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(102, 0, 0);">5.7.10</span><b style="color: rgb(102, 0, 0);"><i><span style="font-size: 8pt;"><br />
</span></i></b></p><p style="color: rgb(102, 0, 0);" class="MsoNormal"><b><i><span style="font-size: 8pt;">TIMES NEWS NETWORK </span></i></b></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="color: windowtext; font-weight: bold;"> </span><span style="font-size: 10pt; color: black;"><span style="font-weight: bold;">Chennai</span>: The government is planning to table and pass in the next session of parliament a law to prevent sexual assault of children, Union law minister Veerappa Moily said on Sunday.<br />
</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 10pt; color: black;"> On June 30, TOI ran a story about the government planning an exclusive law to protect children from sexual assault and also that a special court will be set up to try such cases.<br />
</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 10pt; color: black;"> The Protection of Children From Sexual Assault Bill, 2010, seeks to protect children against offences of sexual assault and harassment more effectively than is possible under the provisions of Indian Penal Code. It will also eliminate ambiguity in defining crimes, make special courts with special powers mandatory for speedy trial, and overrule the need to obtain permission to penalise personnel of armed forces. The special courts will be appointed by the state governments and will have jurisdiction to try cases relating to child pornography.<br />
</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 10pt; color: black;"> “We have prepared the second working draft and will table and pass it in the next session of parliament as a separate law is inevitable. The government also hopes that all parties will extend their support in passing the bill,’’ he said. He was taking part in a discussion here on “Law reform and legislation on sexual offences against children’.<br />
</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 10pt; color: black;"> He also handed over the second draft of the bill and requested the participants to discuss and suggest changes and additions as early as possible because “we feel that there should be transparency in formulating the law’’.<br />
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In 4 years, no case will last over 3 years: Moily<br />
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</span></b><span style="font-size: 10pt; color: black;">Chennai: Steps are being taken to tone up the justice delivery system so that no litigation lasts beyond three years. And it will take four years for the measures to take effect. Talking to reporters after a meeting chief justices, law ministers and officials from the four southern states here, Union law minister M Veerappa Moily said the hefty grant of Rs 5,000 crore to upgrade infrastructure in the judiciary and steps like advancing the process of filling up posts even before they fall vacant and increasing the use of alternative dispute resolution forums would have the effect of reducing backlog of cases and bringing down litigation time. “In about four years, any litigation, of whatever kind, will not be prolonged beyond three years,’’ the law minister said. TNN </span></p>Amrita Purkayasthahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17332261784473353956noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4377701041087523408.post-86273929047180659222010-03-31T01:03:00.005+05:302010-03-31T01:13:13.586+05:30Zindagi Live episode on Child Sexual AbuseHi,<br /><br />Zindagi Live, IBN7 tells the story of four survivors of CSA, what happened to them, how they fought through it, how the abuse has affected their lives, and how can sexual abuse of children be prevented or dealt with.<br /><br />Watch this epsiode at this link:<br /><br /><a href="http://ibnlive.in.com/videos/112272/03_2010/zindagilive_28march1/is-your-child-being-sexually-abused.html">http://ibnlive.in.com/videos/112272/03_2010/zindagilive_28march1/is-your-child-being-sexually-abused.html</a><br /><br />There are 8 clips. Please watch in sequence.<br /><br />Amrita.Amrita Purkayasthahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17332261784473353956noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4377701041087523408.post-11677140443583763672010-03-23T21:08:00.002+05:302010-03-23T21:12:40.698+05:30Six out of every 554 street children in Kolkata are HIV+, says NICED<p style="padding: 0px; margin-top: 7px; float: left; width: 270px; font-weight: bold; color: rgb(153, 0, 0); text-align: justify;">Tue, Mar 23 05:25 PM</p><div style="text-align: justify;"> </div><p class="first" style="margin-top: 0px; text-align: justify;"><br /></p><p class="first" style="margin-top: 0px; font-weight: bold; text-align: justify;"><br /></p><p class="first" style="margin-top: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-weight: bold;">Kolkata, March 23 (ANI)</span>: A study conducted by the National Institute of Cholera and Enteric Diseases (NICED) has found at least six out of every 554 street children in the age group of five to fourteen in Kolkata are HIV positive, while 22 suffer from syphilis.</p><div style="text-align: justify;"> </div><p style="text-align: justify;">Kolkata has an estimated number of over 11,000 street children.</p><div style="text-align: justify;"> </div><p style="text-align: justify;">Sexual abuse was identified as the main cause for these children suffering from sexually transmitted diseases. Nine per cent of the children interviewed during the study reported some form or other of sexual abuse. The children didn't even know that they had these diseases.</p><div style="text-align: justify;"> </div><p style="text-align: justify;">According to Dr Kamalesh Sarkar, Deputy Director, Division of Epidemiology, National Institute of Cholera and Enteric Diseases (NICED), random blood samples taken during the study had revealed that from HIV to Hepatitis-B and VDRL, the children had it all. While one per cent of the children were HIV positive, four per cent had syphilis and six per cent had Hepatitis-B.</p><div style="text-align: justify;"> </div><p style="text-align: justify;">The problem lies in the fact that being homeless, they fail to come within the purview of any intervention programmes. Nor do they have access to sustained health care.</p><div style="text-align: justify;"> </div><p style="text-align: justify;">Dr Sarkar said that no case of AIDS was detected in the children, adding that the disease took about 10 years to become full blown after the initial HIV infection.</p><div style="text-align: justify;"> </div><p style="text-align: justify;">AIDS might take on epidemic proportions amongst the pavement dwellers in that period of time, considering the rampant sexual abuse and lack of awareness and health care. The high incidence of sexually transmitted diseases among street children is poised to become a serious health hazard in future.</p><div style="text-align: justify;"> </div><p style="text-align: justify;">Research assistant Baishali Bal pointed out that girls over the age of 15 reported higher incidence of sexual abuse when they stepped out of their homes to find work while boys were physically abused when young by older boys on the streets. About 30 per cent of the children also reported non-tobacco substance abuse.</p><div style="text-align: justify;"> </div><p style="text-align: justify;">Most of these children are either beggars, rag pickers, vendors, shoe-shiners, car cleaners or porters and about 85 per cent slept in public places like pavements, railway stations, under flyovers etc.</p><div style="text-align: justify;"> </div><p style="text-align: justify;">The study found that while majority of these children had either one or both parents, they lacked family ties or bonding, love, care and guidance, leading to increased risk behaviour like substance abuse, crime and violence.</p><div style="text-align: justify;"> </div><p style="text-align: justify;">The NICED has proposed setting up of night shelters and support centres for the street children at the public places where they stay so that proper health care and social intervention can be carried out.</p><div style="text-align: justify;"> </div><p style="text-align: justify;">There are an estimated 300 million street children across the world, struggling for survival without access to food, shelter and proper clothing.</p><div style="text-align: justify;"> </div><p style="text-align: justify;">According to the estimates of the Asian Development Bank, about 25 million children are living on the streets in Asia. India has the world's largest concentration of street children.<br /></p><p style="text-align: justify; font-weight: bold;">By Ajitha Menon (ANI)</p><p style="text-align: justify;">[ Thanks to Sagnik for the link to this article at<br /></p><p style="text-align: justify;"><a href="http://in.news.yahoo.com/139/20100323/824/tnl-six-out-of-every-554-street-children.html">http://in.news.yahoo.com/139/20100323/824/tnl-six-out-of-every-554-street-children.html</a></p><p style="text-align: justify; font-weight: bold;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">]</span><br /></p>Amrita Purkayasthahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17332261784473353956noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4377701041087523408.post-13269501843024877452010-03-03T21:59:00.006+05:302010-03-03T22:05:42.002+05:3010-yr-old girl molested in tony South Mumbai club<table style="text-align: left; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px;" width="100%"><tbody><tr><td><br /></td></tr><tr><td><p style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(153, 0, 0);" class="writerName"><span style="font-size:130%;">Somendra Sharma. Mumbai. Mar 3, 2010</span></p><p style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(153, 0, 0);" class="writerName"><span style="font-size:130%;"><br /></span></p></td></tr><tr><td><span class="bodyd" style="color: rgb(44, 44, 44);font-family:arial;font-size:130%;" >A 10-year-old Parsi girl, who had gone to the posh Breach Candy Club for a swim on Sunday, was allegedly molested by a 19-year-old boy. The alleged molester, who was trying to flee after the incident, was caught by a few foreigners and handed over to the police. He has been identified as Imadultullah Hasantullah.<br /><br />According to the Gamdevi police, the incident occurred on Sunday night when the complainant and his family had come to the club at Bhulabhai Desai Road in Breach Candy for a swim. He is a member of Breach Candy Club.<br /><br />"After swimming, the family went to have dinner in the club house, while their 10-year-old daughter remained near the pool. This is when Hasantullah pulled the girl towards him and molested her," said a police official, requesting anonymity.<br /><br />The official added that the incident occurred at around 8.30pm.<br /><br />"After some time, the girl went to her parents and narrated the entire incident to them; after this, they went to the spot. On seeing the girl's parents, Hasantullah tried to flee but some foreigners caught him," said the official.<br /><br />No details were available about the suspect. All the police said was that Hasantullah was an Indian believed to have arrived from abroad around 10 days ago.<br /><br />He has been arrested and an offence of molestation, under section 354 of the Indian Penal Code, has been registered. He was produced before a local court on Monday for police remand. The club officials refused to comment on the incident.<br /><br />[Source: <a href="http://epaper.dnaindia.com/epapermain.aspx?queryed=9&querypage=1&boxid=30694820&parentid=111568&eddate=03/03/2010"> http://epaper.dnaindia.com/epapermain.aspx?queryed=9&querypage=1&boxid=30694820&parentid=111568&eddate=03/03/2010</a> ]<br /><br /></span></td></tr></tbody></table>Amrita Purkayasthahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17332261784473353956noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4377701041087523408.post-71688012474433478822010-01-17T20:46:00.006+05:302010-01-17T20:53:35.584+05:30HOPE RAN and the difference it made<span style="font-size:100%;"><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhe0Oey0mFdka8GmELparRf-XRV_jf9fzjYlMy68AH1c3MkUmQH-9BftRAyPZTmFjrhQRBTMN_UneGNtldbOt2vTnzSCgyL9ot8rL1fC6wbqWt0WY8bZTWS81pby2lpKCmosARunfAkaLcp/s1600-h/harish+iyer+-+mumbai+marathon1lowres.jpg"><img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 240px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhe0Oey0mFdka8GmELparRf-XRV_jf9fzjYlMy68AH1c3MkUmQH-9BftRAyPZTmFjrhQRBTMN_UneGNtldbOt2vTnzSCgyL9ot8rL1fC6wbqWt0WY8bZTWS81pby2lpKCmosARunfAkaLcp/s320/harish+iyer+-+mumbai+marathon1lowres.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5427728936562160514" border="0" /></a><br /></span><div style="text-align: justify;" id=":tr" class="ii gt"> <span style=";font-family:Arial;font-size:100%;" ><span style="font-family:Arial;"><span style="color: rgb(128, 0, 0);"><br /><span style="font-size:130%;">As you know not only did adult surivovors of CSA share their stories with Harish during the 'HOPE RUNS' campaign, but also when they saw him running with the placard today during the marathon. </span></span></span></span> <p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style=";font-family:Arial;font-size:130%;" ><span style="color: rgb(128, 0, 0);"><br /></span></span></p><p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style=";font-family:Arial;font-size:130%;" ><span style="color: rgb(128, 0, 0);">Harish said, <em>“One man just out of the </em></span></span><span style="font-size:130%;"><img src="file:///C:/Users/Amrita_Purkayastha/Downloads/harish%20iyer%20-%20mumbai%20marathon1lowres.jpg" alt="" /></span><span style=";font-family:Arial;font-size:130%;" ><span style="color: rgb(128, 0, 0);"><em>blue hugged me and started crying, I asked him if he knew me and if I can be of any help to him."</em> </span></span></p> <p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style=";font-family:Arial;font-size:130%;" ><span style="color: rgb(128, 0, 0);"><br /></span></span></p><p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style=";font-family:Arial;font-size:130%;" ><span style="color: rgb(128, 0, 0);">He simply replied, <em>“Thank You”.</em> </span></span><span style="font-size:130%;"><img src="file:///C:/Users/Amrita_Purkayastha/Downloads/harish%20iyer%20-%20mumbai%20marathon1lowres.jpg" alt="" /></span></p> <p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style=";font-family:Arial;font-size:130%;" ><span style="color: rgb(128, 0, 0);"><br /></span></span></p><p style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style=";font-family:Arial;font-size:130%;" ><span style="color: rgb(128, 0, 0);">Harish wondered why this stranger was thanking him, he thought it was a case of mistaken identity. When Harish asked him further the stranger replied,<em> “I am a survivor of child sexual abuse too.”</em> Saying so, he again hugged Harish and revealed that he had not shared it with anybody, but today for the first time with a stranger. He smiled and vanished into the crowd.</span></span><span style="font-size:130%;"><img src="file:///C:/Users/Amrita_Purkayastha/Downloads/harish%20iyer%20-%20mumbai%20marathon1lowres.jpg" alt="" /></span></p> <span style="font-size:130%;"><br /></span><span style="color: rgb(128, 0, 0);font-family:Arial;font-size:130%;" >Everything can't be measured and valued... some differences are just immeasurable and invaluable... that moment was one of them....</span><span style="font-size:130%;"><br /><br /></span> <span style="color: rgb(128, 0, 0);font-family:Arial;font-size:130%;" >See attached a photo of how HOPE RAN! : ' )</span><span style="font-size:130%;"><br /><br /></span> <span style="color: rgb(0, 128, 0);font-family:Arial;font-size:130%;" >We got covered today by the Times of India, Radio Mirchi, IBN 7 and NDTV 24 X 7.</span><span style="font-size:130%;"><br /><br /></span><span style="color: rgb(0, 128, 0);font-family:Arial;font-size:130%;" >Today's Times of India (Mumbai edition), pg 29 carries Harish's story.</span><span style="font-size:130%;"><br /><br /></span> <span style="color: rgb(0, 128, 0);font-family:Arial;font-size:130%;" >Thank you everyone for all your support and best wishes.</span><span style="font-size:130%;"><br /><br /></span> <span style=";font-family:Arial;font-size:130%;" >***********<br /><span style="font-size:100%;">Pooja Taparia<br />Founder and CEO<br />Arpan - Towards Freedom from Child Sexual Abuse<br />mobile: +91.98201.35567<br />email: <a href="mailto:pooja@arpan.org.in" target="_blank">pooja@arpan.org.in</a><br />office: 2nd floor, unit no. 24, 105, Apollo Street, Mumbai Samachar Marg, Mumbai 400 023<br />website: <a href="http://www.arpan.org.in/" target="_blank">www.arpan.org.in</a><br />blog: <a href="http://www.arpancsa.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">www.arpancsa.blogspot.com</a><br />facebook: arpan<br />You Tube: <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rfmo8kjezs8" target="_blank">http://www.youtube.com/watch?<wbr>v=rfmo8kjezs8</a><br />Karmayog - <a href="http://www.karmayog.org/ngo/arpan/" target="_blank">http://www.karmayog.org/ngo/<wbr>arpan/</a></span><br />***********</span> </div>Amrita Purkayasthahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17332261784473353956noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4377701041087523408.post-66423857544530819192009-11-27T00:03:00.007+05:302009-11-27T00:09:31.633+05:30Major role for schools in preventing child abuse<p style="text-align: justify; color: rgb(153, 0, 0); font-weight: bold;">By Meera Srinivasan<br /></p><p style="text-align: justify; color: rgb(153, 0, 0); font-weight: bold;"><span style="color:black;">Friday, Nov 20, 2009</span></p><hr color="lightblue" noshade="noshade"> <i> <p>Experts believe that sustaining such efforts is real issue</p> <p>Schools should pay attention to their screening and recruitment process</p></i> <hr color="lightblue" noshade="noshade"> <br /><p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-weight: bold;">CHENNAI</span>: Several events were organised in the city on Thursday to mark the ‘World Day for the Prevention of Child Abuse.’ However, some activists and experts believe that sustaining such efforts is the real issue. They feel every day ought to be a ‘prevention of child abuse day’. </p><div style="text-align: justify;"> </div><p style="text-align: justify;">From abusing children emotionally for “poor academic performance” to sexual abuse, many children are being subjected to a lot of abuse, if reports of incidents highlighting these are an indication. But, there is something everyone can do to prevent this.</p><div style="text-align: justify;"> </div><p style="text-align: justify;">For instance, Lady Andal Matriculation School has been taking several efforts in this direction. In particular, it lays emphasis on generating awareness of child sexual abuse (CSA). Vice-principal Rathi Radhakrishnan says: “Everyone tends to brush such things under the carpet, saying child sexual abuse should not be there in schools. But, the truth is that it is there. Acknowledging the possibility [of CSA] is very important.” </p><div style="text-align: justify;"> </div><p style="text-align: justify;">From inviting experts in the field to address students, to sensitising teachers, the school has been taking up several efforts. “We even address the little ones in our Montessori sections about who can hug them, and how they should identify inappropriate, unacceptable behaviour of adults.” </p><div style="text-align: justify;"> </div><p style="text-align: justify;">Jayashree Padmanabhan, principal of Gill Adarsh Matriculation School, also thinks it is important for children to be given opportunities to speak out. “We wanted to know their opinion on child abuse and we organised events such as oratorical contest, debate and slogan-writing competition today [Thursday]. They came up with some very insightful thoughts.” </p><div style="text-align: justify;"> </div><p style="text-align: justify;">Underlying the role of schools in creating awareness, Tulir — Centre for the Prevention and Healing of Child Sexual Abuse has initiated ‘Daring to Care,’ a school-based campaign.</p><div style="text-align: justify;"> </div><p style="text-align: justify;">The initiative seeks to rope in city schools into the space of prevention of CSA. “Many schools have been extremely cooperative. Some have even distributed flyers to their kindergarten children with their school’s logo on them,” says Vidya Reddy, executive director, Tulir. Safe schools acknowledge and accept the possibility of abuse in and out of school. “They talk about it, giving children a notion of their safety,” she adds. </p><div style="text-align: justify;"> </div><p style="text-align: justify;">Schools should pay attention to their screening and recruitment process. “They have to see what kind of training is given to teachers on child protection, what measures are taken to maintain safety in schools, whether there is a code of conduct and questions such as, How do you report an allegation of abuse? And how do you address it?”</p><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="subsectionhead" style="font-size:100%;color:red;">Complaint cell </span> </div><p style="text-align: justify;">The School Education Department launched a complaint cell (Number: 28273591) two years ago. According to a senior official at the Directorate of School Education, the cell does get calls from students reporting sexual abuse. “But, the number of such calls has come down.” The Chief Education Officers have been given instructions to deal with such cases “responsibly.” And responsibly would have to be taking the matter to the police immediately, and not merely transferring teachers, which is a common practice, say activists. </p><div style="text-align: justify;"> </div><p style="text-align: justify;">Interest to spread the message from different quarters is a promising sign. An online network of mothers, <a href="http://www.chennaimoms.com/">www.chennaimoms.com</a>, has been sending out messages to parents on the possibility for abuse online and the need for Internet safety. “Many children spend considerable time online. Many parents said they did not know that such threats existed and seemed happy to become aware,” says Bhavani Raman, founder, chennaimoms.com.</p><p style="text-align: justify;">[Source: <a href="http://www.thehindu.com/2009/11/20/stories/2009112058380200.htm">http://www.thehindu.com/2009/11/20/stories/2009112058380200.htm </a>]<br /></p>Amrita Purkayasthahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17332261784473353956noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4377701041087523408.post-12206735457615066622009-11-04T20:27:00.005+05:302009-11-04T20:35:34.655+05:309-year-old files case of rape against dad<div style="text-align: justify;" id="ahead" class="articlehead"><div style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(102, 0, 0);" class="att"><span class="date cf">04/11/2009</span></div><p class="articleabstract">A depraved man raped his helpless 9-year-old daughter in Mumbai for two years and even sold her to his friends. Finally, the girl’s grandfather took courage and helped the girl file a case. Apart from this painful and shocking case in today’s crime file, there are the cases of an MD who had an itch to steal, a human sacrifice in IT city of Hyderabad and a BPO who jumped to death in Bangalore. Read on.</p></div><div class="parent insert chrome6 single1 float8 cf" style="width: 404px; text-align: justify;"><div class="child c1 first"><div class="img"><p><img src="http://stbjp.msn.com/i/42/52126FF4DC9607B33EAC8F91F.jpg" alt="Crime file" class="img1" width="400" height="150" /></p></div></div></div><p style="text-align: justify;"><strong>Father, friends arrested for abusing young girl</strong></p><p style="text-align: justify;">In a depressing and shocking case, a 9-year-old girl in Mumbai has filed a complaint of rape against her father. The girl filed the case with the help of her grandfather.</p><p style="text-align: justify;">In the horrifying complaint, the girl described how her father, Chhatish Das (33), and friends allegedly raped her for over two years, made her bones ache and sent her through hell.</p><p style="text-align: justify;">The police have now arrested Das and two others -- Ashok Sahu and Shabbir Syyed.</p><p style="text-align: justify;">The girl is half Cambodian and does not have any relatives from her mother's side in Mumbai. She first poured out her woes to her grandmother who informed her husband. The grandfather took her to the police station and helped her file a complaint against his own son.</p><p style="text-align: justify;">According to the police, Das worked as an electrician in Cambodia and fell in love with a local woman. They got married in 2002 and had a daughter. Three years after marriage, he left his wife and returned to India. A year later, his wife sent their daughter to India.</p><p style="text-align: justify;">Das's parents had thrown him out of their house for marrying without their consent. But when Das pushed his daughter to the streets to beg, they let him and the girl stay in their house in Kandivli (W).</p><p style="text-align: justify;">The girl told the police that her father had forced her to have sex with him. He then started bringing in his friends and on several occasions took money in exchange for sex.</p><p style="text-align: justify;">One day the girl telephoned her grandfather and complained that her father was ill-treating her. The elderly man then sent the child and her grandmother to his village. There the girl took courage to describe the trauma she had been undergoing. The shocked grandmother brought the little girl to Mumbai and told her husband about it.</p><p style="text-align: justify;">The man then took the girl to the local police station and helped her file a complaint.</p><p style="text-align: justify;">Senior police inspector P S Gawande of Charkop police station told the local press that the girl's story was big shock to her grandparents . The couple discussed it for a couple of days and then decided to file a police complaint on Tuesday .<br /><br />The elderly couple said they were also victims to brutality as Das beat them regularly while under the influence of alcohol. The couple eventually asked Das to leave their flat with his daughter.</p><p style="text-align: justify;">[ Source: <a href="http://news.in.msn.com/crimefile/article.aspx?cp-documentid=3349802">http://news.in.msn.com/crimefile/article.aspx?cp-documentid=3349802</a> ]</p><p style="text-align: center;">[Thanks to Sagnik for the link]<br /></p>Amrita Purkayasthahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17332261784473353956noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4377701041087523408.post-35264327015418923622009-10-30T00:40:00.006+05:302009-10-30T00:54:30.898+05:30Support Laws against Child Sexual Abuse<p align="justify">Hi all,<br /><br />ELAAN has put together a petition, targeted at the Indian Parliament and Law Commision of India, for laws against CSA. This is a BIG step, and it needs all our support. <strong>Go sign the petition at the link below:<br /></strong><br /><a href="http://www.gopetition.com/petitions/law-against-child-sexual-abuse.html">http://www.gopetition.com/petitions/law-against-child-sexual-abuse.html</a><br /><br />Thanks, </p><p align="justify">Amrita.</p>Amrita Purkayasthahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17332261784473353956noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4377701041087523408.post-77730391876642079122009-08-01T20:21:00.006+05:302009-08-01T20:29:06.995+05:30A letter to my non-survivor friends: things I want to tell you but don't know howHi,<br /><br />Found this piece really moving. Thanks to <a href="http://askios-survivors.blogspot.com/">Askios</a> for the link.<br /><br /><a href="http://community.feministing.com/2009/04/a-letter-to-my-non-survivor-fr.html">http://community.feministing.com/2009/04/a-letter-to-my-non-survivor-fr.html</a><br /><br />Shared via <a href="http://addthis.com/">AddThis</a>Amrita Purkayasthahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17332261784473353956noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4377701041087523408.post-53944996115241422702009-08-01T19:36:00.007+05:302009-08-01T19:51:49.642+05:30FACSE invites all to the open meeting on 25th Aug, '09 in Mumbai<div align="justify"> </div><div align="justify">Dear Friends,<br /><br />Greetings from FACSE!!<br /><br />As you already know, Forum against Child Sexual Exploitation (FACSE) is a 13 year old network of individuals, professionals and organizations working to eliminate sexual exploitation and abuse of children.<br /><br />The forum the following broad objectives:<br /><br />To create awareness about the issue of child sexual abuse among different target groups as well as the general public.<br /><br />To lobby for necessary changes in the law.<br /><br />To handle cases through home visits, counselling, legal follow up and emotional rehabilitation of the children.<br /><br />We also take great pleasure in informing you that Saathi has taken up the Convenorship of the Forum for the next three years. Saathi is registered development organization in Mumbai and is committed to working with issues faced by youth living on the streets and runaway or abandoned adolescent girls since 1997.<br /><br />With a new energy we are reviving the activities that FACSE used to pursue. We would like to thank you in making the last meeting a success<br /><br />This time, we have invited Dr. Naina Athale, Counsellor and faulty at Tata Institute of Social Sciences as the Guest Speaker to share her experiences of working with sexually abused children using play therapy.<br /><br />Our intention is to use the medium of film for sensitizing each and every person in contact with children (through work or otherwise) to their responsibility of upholding and promoting the Rights of Children. <strong>We would thus like to invite you for the open meeting on 25th August 09 Tuesday at 4:00 p.m. at the following address.<br /><br />FACSE<br />C/o CCVC,<br />Room No: 54, 2nd Floor<br />Gilder Lane Municipal School,<br />Off. Belasis Bridge.<br />Opp. Mumbai Central Station<br />Mumbai 08<br /></strong><br />Kindly RSVP at this number <strong>9820996223 or 23002683 (Ms. Ketki Doshi)</strong><br /><br />Regards<br />FACSE team</div>Amrita Purkayasthahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17332261784473353956noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4377701041087523408.post-35921258056075668972009-07-30T00:01:00.006+05:302009-07-30T00:10:33.839+05:30Teacher 'disrobes' girls<div align="justify"><a href="http://ibnlive.in.com/news/agency/Press+Trust+Of+India/"><span style="color:#660000;"><strong>Press Trust Of India</strong></span></a><span style="color:#660000;"><strong> </strong></span></div><div align="justify"><span style="color:#660000;"><strong>Published on Wed, Jul 29, 2009 at 19:26,<br />Updated on Wed, Jul 29, 2009 at 20:19 in </strong></span><a href="http://ibnlive.in.com/india/"><span style="color:#660000;"><strong>India</strong></span></a><span style="color:#660000;"><strong> section<br /></strong></span><br /><strong>Vidisha</strong>: In a shocking incident, a teacher allegedly removed upper clothes of eight Adivasi girl students of fifth standard of a government school near Tyonda in Vidisha on the pretext of taking measurements for their uniforms.</div><div align="justify"><br />The shameful act of the teacher has now forced the eight girls of Ganjbasoda's Nurpur Education Guarantee Scheme School to discontinue their studies.</div><div align="justify"><br />The incident that took place on July 24 about five km from Tyonda came to light when the girls complained to their parents about it, District Education Officer Manish Verma said on Wednesday.</div><div align="justify"><br />He said the parents in a complaint alleged that the Guruji (teacher), Sanjeev Sharma, had allegedly removed the upper clothes of eight Adivasi girl students on the pretext of taking measurements for their uniforms in a closed classroom after calling two students at a time.</div><div align="justify"><br />Once he made them to remove their upper clothes, he took the measurement with his fingers, instead of an inch-tape, Verma said. The students also alleged that the teacher had misbehaved with them when they were half-naked in the closed classroom, the DEO said.</div><div align="justify"><br />The angry villagers went to the school but by then, Sharma had left after locking the premises following which they complained about the matter to the DEO.</div><div align="justify"><br />Later, the DEO constituted a four-member committee, led by Tehsildar Kiran Badbade, which after conducting a probe found Sharma prima facie guilty on the matter.</div><div align="justify"><br />Taking action on the probe report, the DEO dismissed Sharma from service yesterday with immediate effect.<br /><br />[Source: <a href="http://ibnlive.in.com/news/teacher-disrobes-girls/98153-3.html">http://ibnlive.in.com/news/teacher-disrobes-girls/98153-3.html</a> ]<br /> </div>Amrita Purkayasthahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17332261784473353956noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4377701041087523408.post-89732783475524049452009-07-03T22:00:00.001+05:302009-07-03T22:06:59.862+05:30It doesn't cost much to protect a child from sexual abuse<div align="justify"><br />90 million children in India have been sexually abused. This means that they have been touched, kissed and fondled inappropriately, sometimes raped. This has been done to them usually by someone they trust and know and at an age when they cannot even begin to understand what might have been happening. Most of these children grow up believing it was somehow their fault that this happened to them. They either grow up to be very disturbed and traumatised adults or many a times abusers themselves.</div><div align="justify"><br />90 million children - if it hasn’t happened to your child or to someone you know, it is just sheer providence.</div><div align="justify"><br />Arpan was set up by me to help sexually abused children and adults and prevent it from happening as commonly as it does. Arpan has been working on the issue since year 2006 and has reached out to over 3500 adults and 800 children so far.</div><div align="justify"><br />We wish to expand our programs and reach out to over 3000 adults and children this year for which we need 25 lacs. We need your support.</div><div align="justify"><br />Your contribution will help. </div><div align="justify"><br />Teach personal safety skills to children so that they can protect themselves from sexual abuse .<br />Train parents and teachers to prevent and intervene in the event of CSA .</div><div align="justify"><br />Children and adult survivors heal through counseling and therapy, and restore their dignity and self respect to become healthy happy human beings. </div><div align="justify"><br />To know more about what we do and see a video on Child Sexual Abuse click here - <a href="http://www.arpan.org.in/whatwedo.html">http://www.arpan.org.in/whatwedo.html</a></div><div align="justify"><br />To see a video of our Personal Safety program being taught in schools - <a href="http://www.arpan.org.in/personalsafetyed.html">http://www.arpan.org.in/personalsafetyed.html</a></div><div align="justify"><br />A variety of donation options are available for you to support. For eg. it costs only Rs. 400/- to teach a child how to protect him/herself from sexual abuse and for us to help the child if he needs any intervention. Please click here to view more such donation options and the different modes of payment. <a href="http://www.arpan.org.in/contribute.html">http://www.arpan.org.in/contribute.html</a> </div><div align="justify"><br />I really look forward to your support. I would also appreciate if you could send this appeal to people in your organization, friends and family.</div><div align="justify"><br />Thank you so much! : ) </div><div align="justify"><br />For more information you could contact me (Pooja Taparia) on 9820135567 or <a href="mailto:pooja@arpan.org.in">pooja@arpan.org.in</a><br /><br /><br />Warm regards,<br />Pooja<br />*******<br />Pooja Taparia<br />Founder - CEO<br />Arpan<br />Our vision - A safe world free from Child Sexual Abuse and its ill effects.<br />email: <a href="mailto:pooja@arpan.org.in">pooja@arpan.org.in</a><br />website: <a href="http://www.arpan.org.in/">www.arpan.org.in</a><br />blog: <a href="http://www.arpancsa.blogspot.com/">www.arpancsa.blogspot.com</a><br />facebook: arpan<br />You Tube: <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rfmo8kjezs8">http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rfmo8kjezs8</a></div><div align="justify"> </div>Amrita Purkayasthahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17332261784473353956noreply@blogger.com2